A Self-Paced Program · Just $67

Lead with Love

Move Through Your Life From Love, Not Fear.

A 12-week guided journey — rooted in nervous-system science, self-compassion, and daily reflection — to help you stop routing around yourself and come home to the woman you're becoming after breast cancer.

Lifetime access · Instant delivery · Go at your own pace

Lead with Love — a self-paced program by Laura Lummer

One Question, Asked Every Week

Am I moving from fear, or from love?

For years, so many women learn to read what everyone else needs first. To manage themselves quietly. To say "I'm fine" when they weren't. After a breast cancer diagnosis, that pattern doesn't just cost you emotionally — it registers in your body, in your cortisol, in the systems that do their best work when you feel safe.

This isn't about doing more or getting it right. It's about noticing the half-second pause before the automatic override — and meeting what you find there with something kinder than criticism.

How you relate to yourself internally has a measurable effect on your biology. Self-compassion isn't a soft topic. It's a health practice.

What This Program Will Do For You

Real Change, Grounded in Real Science

Come Home to Your Body

Rebuild the conversation between your body and your brain, so your choices around food, movement, and rest stop being a fight against biology and start being a partnership with it.

Loosen the Grip of Old Grievances

Learn what a grievance is actually made of, and how to weaken the story and interrupt the physical rehearsal, without having to erase a single memory.

Set Boundaries That Actually Hold

Understand the three layers of a boundary that lasts, and why the muscle you're building isn't saying the boundary — it's keeping it.

Release the Weight of the Unspoken

Surface the resentment you've been carrying quietly, because the work of releasing it is, in a real and measurable sense, the work of taking care of your body.

Stop Disappearing in the Room

Catch the difference between a role you consciously choose and the self-abandonment that quietly costs you your aliveness.

Feel Part of Something Larger

Practice finding awe on purpose, and discover how a sense of wonder shows up in your body as less inflammation and more repair.

12 Weeks · Yours For Life

What's Inside Lead with Love

A beautifully designed weekly workbook and lesson — go at your own pace, revisit anytime.

Week 1

Lead with Love

Where your definition of self-love came from, why it matters for your body, and why it's a decision, not a reward.

Week 2

Self-Abandonment

The accumulated weight of small moments, where the pattern begins, and the half-second pause that becomes your doorway.

Week 3

Listening to Your Body Again

The difference between monitoring and listening, and how to rebuild a real relationship with the body you live in.

Week 4

What a Grievance Is Actually Made Of

The three pieces of a grievance, and the quiet work of forgiveness that isn't about erasing the past.

Week 5

Every Relationship Is a System

Why the friction in your closest relationships isn't personal, and how your nervous system and theirs are always reading each other.

Week 6

Boundaries as an Act of Love

What a boundary is actually made of, why the first one is the most expensive, and how to choose the line you can keep.

Week 7

The Quiet Cost of Routing Around Yourself

The resentment inventory, and turning clarity, curiosity, and compassion inward before you extend them out.

Week 8

When They Can't Meet You

The difference between a slow relationship and a closed one, what the gap costs your body, and why receiving is the harder half.

Week 9

Your Relationship With the World

The self you perform versus the self you abandon, and how to stay home even while playing a role.

Week 10

The Lens You Can't See

How perception is shaped before conscious thought, and the one question that turns a belief from something you look through into something you look at.

Week 11

One With Something Larger

What awe does to your body, how to find it on purpose, and remembering you have never been as alone as the fear tells you.

Week 12

Looking Back, Carrying Forward

Look across the whole ninety days and choose, on purpose, what you want to keep — and who you're becoming as you keep choosing love over fear.

Everything You Get

Included in Your $67 Investment

  • 12 weekly guided lessons — beautifully designed digital workbooks you can revisit any time
  • Weekly reflection prompts and journaling practices to turn insight into real change
  • The Embodied Thought Model — a step-by-step tool for seeing the pattern beneath your thoughts
  • The Thought Download practice for getting what's in your head onto the page
  • Body check-in and resentment inventory practices you'll return to for life
  • Nervous-system science made simple and usable — no jargon, just what's true
  • Lifetime access — move at your own pace, come back whenever you need it
  • Instant delivery straight to your inbox

Is Lead with Love Right For You?

This program is for you if…

  • You've moved through the medical part and are asking, "now what?"
  • You've spent years reading what everyone else needs before your own signals
  • You want more than "getting back to normal" — you want something better than before
  • You're ready to stop letting fear and old stories run the show
  • You believe (or want to believe) that a life you love is still ahead of you
Laura Lummer, breast cancer recovery coach

About Your Coach

Hi, I'm Laura

I'm a breast cancer survivor, certified integrative life coach, board-certified holistic health coach, and creator of the Living Well After Breast Cancer™ community. I built Lead with Love because I needed it — and because I've watched hundreds of women use these exact tools to move from "just getting through it" to genuinely loving the lives they're building on the other side.

You do have the ability to create a life that's better than before breast cancer

Lead with Love gives you the science, the practices, and the weekly reflection to actually do it — one ordinary moment at a time.

Lifetime access · Instant delivery · Go at your own pace